I don't get it...

I wanted to post something on a list called sex-tips. A few days ago I did a check on role-playing and was intrigued to find quite a few sex related lists, and this one was actually kind of engaging. I made the list my friend, I joined the community, I stared pleadingly on the list, I *really* wanted to post a comment, but got the harsh reply from live journal that I was not a friend of the list and therefore could not post. I guess you have to know someone, or go some other way around it...::sighs:: I'm too dimwitted for this...::crawls into the closet and draws a blanket over her head::