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Why is it that some people always get a certain (big) amount of slack from others?
And why are hypocrites actually well liked, it only comes down to how good they are at faking it. (but they will never sit on your death bed, no matter how good the performance was).
I have been asked for advice about my ex A again, from people I have known for ages whom he has sought out. They are ambivalent to meet him, so therefore they call me and sort of put the decision on me. I thought the ambivalence was because of me, but no. It turns out to be his old lady again, they don't wanna meet her. WTF???
Can someone please tell me why I have to deal with this? (I'm sure it will backfire in my face somehow)
In the end, when it comes to friendship and love, everyone must sit down and realize for themselves who it is that will hold their hand when it all becomes dark around them, who will hold on and who will let go, when it all turns nasty.
This is a gut feeling thing, quite unrelated to what you base your fun evening chats on.
But I did not tell them that. I told them to make up their own mind. actually I told them to meet them and get it over with already and stop bothering me with it...
And why are hypocrites actually well liked, it only comes down to how good they are at faking it. (but they will never sit on your death bed, no matter how good the performance was).
I have been asked for advice about my ex A again, from people I have known for ages whom he has sought out. They are ambivalent to meet him, so therefore they call me and sort of put the decision on me. I thought the ambivalence was because of me, but no. It turns out to be his old lady again, they don't wanna meet her. WTF???
Can someone please tell me why I have to deal with this? (I'm sure it will backfire in my face somehow)
In the end, when it comes to friendship and love, everyone must sit down and realize for themselves who it is that will hold their hand when it all becomes dark around them, who will hold on and who will let go, when it all turns nasty.
This is a gut feeling thing, quite unrelated to what you base your fun evening chats on.
But I did not tell them that. I told them to make up their own mind. actually I told them to meet them and get it over with already and stop bothering me with it...
