YES. And it's such a simple, basic thing, but I absolutely LOATHE the idea that men somehow know better than women what women want. It's yet another way to trivialize us. And it blows my mind that I even have to sit there making the argument that I AM A WOMAN AND I AM TELLING YOU I DON'T LIKE MEN WHO ACT LIKE THAT. Of course I don't presume to speak for my entire gender, but I think I'm at least MORE qualified to do so than a guy is, for fuck's sake.

Ughhhhhhh.